the new success

“To ask, “What’s best for me” is finite thinking. To ask, “What’s best for us” is infinite thinking.”  -Simon Sinek

In the era of Greta and #metoo we need a new success.

Instead of cooperation and collaboration, let’s embrace interconnectedness and reciprocity.

Instead of skills we need for jobs, let’s focus on skills we need to thrive as fully actualized human beings.

Let’s stop competing to be the most successful and instead, figure out what conditions will allow all to experience their own success.

Let’s embrace each child as full and complete.

In the era of fake news, complexity, and uncertainty, let’s be 100% certain about what really matters.

Instead of creating checklists of skills, let’s check with the children in our care: what gifts do they bring?; what are their hopes and dreams?

Instead of defining success for them, let’s ask them what it means to be successful and support them on their way.

Let’s stop offering simple solutions to complex problems and being surprised when they fail.

Let’s embrace our uncertainty about the future. And be okay with it. Failure isn’t an inability to predict the future. Failure is the inability to accept that you can’t possibly predict it. 

In an era of limited resources and environment, let’s spend time, significant time, determining how to use the resources we have, to advantage all.

Instead of sacrificing limited resources in the name of success, let’s define success by how we use these finite resources.

Instead of viewing success as a ladder we must climb, let’s see it as a way to add more rungs.

Let’s stop throwing resources at trendy projects for short term wins and instead fund projects that aren’t about winning or losing, but are about including all.

Let’s embrace that no success comes without failure and all failures help to define our successes.

It’s time for a new success.

Inequality Exists in Education. Pedagogy Isn’t Gonna to Fix It

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At-risk children who reach school without basic skills are 25 percent more likely to drop out, 40 percent more likely to become teen parents and 60 percent less likely to go to college.  -Claudia Miner

There are 3 of us, all teachers, planning an upcoming Grade 2 literacy unit.  We know the class to be diverse, in terms of skills, needs, and interests. Sitting here in the office, pedagogy seems to be the key to meeting these challenges head on.  Game day comes and we are PREPARED! And excited and scared. We want this to work because, well for one, this is our job and failure hurts, but primarily, it is our chance to put our theoretical “best practices” to the test.

The maze of school is designed for those with privilege

The first lesson goes well.  All students are engaged and on task.  But as the days and weeks go by, it becomes abundantly clear that that we are not meeting the needs of all learners in the room.  It’s not that we can’t engage the children, or get them to line up, or get them fully involved in a meaningful learning experience.  It’s not that. It’s not that at all. It is glaring realization that we can’t fill in the gaping holes of missing skills. Our very best pedagogy can’t make up for the lack of life experiences, the missing meals, the missing mother, the incarcerated father, or the missing love.

No lesson, no teacher, no team can give them what they don’t have.  Our best practices can’t provide them with privilege. 

School does a great job with students who arrive with these skills in place but not so much with students who don’t.  It’s as if there is an invisible, immutable leveled maze. All students enter the maze but some quickly fast track up to the next level.  For those who get lost on the first level, they get stuck there. To get them out you have to trace the maze back to where they are. At times you can see them but they are just out of your reach or in the moments you find them another situation will take you away.  Imagine how it would feel to be trapped there, all alone. 

Some schools have more privilege

“high-achieving public-schools are united by a thriving community of economically secure middle-class families with sufficient political power to demand great schools, the time and resources to participate in those schools, and the tax money to amply fund them. In short, great public schools are the product of a thriving middle class, not the other way around.” –Nick Hanauer

Months have passed since our time at this school and I still think about it, trying to wrap my mind around this complex situation.  It’s nobody’s fault. Not the school’s, not the teacher’s, not our’s. Perhaps though, we all are a little complicit in taking our privilege for granted and ignoring all that it has afforded us.  We need to talk about and recognize privilege as a force stronger than any pedagogy we might put in place. And it is not that we should give up the ghost on pedagogy, but maybe we shouldn’t put all our eggs in the pedagogy basket and be surprised when nothing really changes.  Maybe we need to diversify our energy and focus, and look privilege in the eyes. 

What if these children lived in another neighborhood, say one up the hill?  What if they attended a less vulnerable school? Would their schooling be different?  Instead of being one of many, would they be one of the few and receive the attention they deserve?

It’s time to share privilege

“How am I supposed to feel about my children’s success when I know, deep down, in my heart of hearts, that the world around them would be a better place if more children like them won fewer of the spoils?” –Will Reitch

And what of our hopes and dreams of empowering all students in the journey towards becoming fully actualized humans and citizens?  Do we mean this only so far as our own privilege and that of our children stays fully in tact?

Education asks students to conform to it’s maze, the one biased towards those with privilege, what might our system look like if we rebuilt this to meet those outside of privilege?  Wouldn’t we all benefit?

How might we begin to imagine and create feasible programs that support the needs of all students, not just those who show up with privilege?

How might we share privilege?